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Sunday, June 29, 2008

My dad always says..

My dad is a man with 101 proverbs (is it becoz he was a school principal before?). Whenever we siblings, feel sad / down / angry; he would come to us and say a relevant proverb to motivate and cheer us.

I remember, during school time, I wasnt satisfied with something; dad said "I complaint because I have no shoe, until I saw a man who has no feet." Of course, being very young, I didnt fully understand what he really meant. Basically, he wanted us to appreciate and be blessed with the things what we have.

Here's a video to share with all of you. Thanks June, for sharing.


As usual, I googled him. Meet the man inperson and in Wiki. Tony, you are truly inspiring. I had tears when I saw your videos.

Catechesis of the Good Shepherd ‘hands-on’ religious education gets a look in Texas

An article re: Catechesis of Good Shepherd (CGS), for reading pleasure

By Jonah Dycus
5/14/2008

The Texas Catholic Herald (www.texascatholicherald.org)

KINGWOOD, Texas (The Texas Catholic Herald) - Centered on the specific goal of bringing children closer to God, Catechesis of the Good Shepherd is being introduced to religious educators in the Archdiocese of Galvestion-Houston through formation courses being held at St. Martha Church.



The retreat-like focus of the Good Shepherd workshop helps emphasize the experiential approach to the spiritual formation, which concentrates on children 3-12 years in age, according to Annie Spade, formation leader.

“Since it is such a different approach to the child’s spirituality, we also continue to seek that kind of communion with our inner self,” Spade said in explaining the retreat format for the adult participants. “When we are young children, it is very natural for us (to be open-minded). But the older we get, the more we get into our routines and habits. If we weren’t given this opportunity, then a lot of times we would be lost.”

Based on Montessori principles of education, “the catechesis introduces the child to the Bible and liturgy through hands-on materials that allow the child to name and develop their personal relationship with God and the Church,” according to workshop literature. “The catechist and the child are co-learners seeking together the mystery of God and God’s kingdom.”

The formation is co-sponsored by the archdiocesan CCE Office’s Childhood Ministries and St. Martha Church.

Twenty-five catechists representing eight archdiocesan parishes have been enrolled in the formation courses at St. Martha.

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Saturday, June 28, 2008

Music Exposure

Lil C was exposed to music when he was in Mama's tummy. We would play soft peaceful songs / music all night long. When he was born, he responded those songs by sleeping/resting soundly. We believed that he recognised those song long before.

As he was growing up, we noticed that lil C was very much music inclined. He loves banging the pots and pans, and make uses of chopsticks/pencils or anything similar as drumsticks. He told us that he wants to learn to play drum.

There's a game we play, also lil C's favourite called guessing sound game. When I heard a sound that lil C might recognise, like a plane's / helicopter's engine, I would instruct him to close his eyes and guess what sound does he hear. He is able to distinguish the two sound well, this activity also trains the little ear to polish his auditory skills.

Lil C able distinguish different musical instrument's sound , like the piano / guitar / drum; trumpet / trombone / tuba / flute / recorder / horn; violin / cello; maraccas etc to name a few. He also knows the basic songs of Mozart, Bach, Beetoven (but he doesnt know who they are yet), thanks to Baby Einstein's.

And now, it has been almost a year he attends FMT music class at musikgarten. It's not teaching the kids playing piano or any specific musical instrument. The kids will listen / sing / dance to beautiful songs as well as getting hands-on with percussions (Blocks/jingles/drum/guiro/triangle etc) as it helps the kids grow musically, emotinally, socially & cognitively.

He enjoys the 30 minutes / once session a week class very much. Sometimes, he will do the same at home, copycat what the trainers did during class. It is also a parent-child bonding as it is compulsary for the parent to sit with the kid. (Imagine, some parents would ask the maid to seat next to the kid, while parents sitting comfortably outside of the room). Baby C also benefits as we tag him along too. Maybe when he is 6 months old, we would like to enrol him for the Family Music Babies course.

It is important for children to realize that music is always the result of body movements. Even if there are natural sounds, children need to understand that music is produced by human beings using various muscles of the mouth, hands and arms. They should know how many different instruments there are and should have the opportunity to witness how musicians control their gestures so as to obtain different musical sounds.
— Dr. Silvana Montanaro

Friday, June 27, 2008

More books for the boys

Yeay, another badge of books arrived from amazon.com.

Bought quite a number of books this year, mainly becoz lil C shows so much interest in books.

Collection from Laurence Anholt, introducing famous artists like Leonardo da Vinci, Claude Monet, Vincent Van Gogh and Picasso life story to Lil C (and Baby C too in future ~ that's one of the main reason why I invest a lot in books.. lots of them).



Another Montessori collection, for my CGS home-school with the boys. This is a very old book, rare and republished.. Having it is like a dream come true (to a nerdie mama like me.. hehehe).


Hehehe.. a short note, new discovery made ; Baby C finally found his hand!

Thursday, June 26, 2008

For the love of books

"The World is a book, and those who do not travel read only a page."
(St. Augustine)

I love reading.. be it books, magazines, subtitles (hahah.. necessary while watching the HK TVB dramas series.. j/k), even a piece of leaftlet at the doctor's waiting room.. I even read the preface section on books - word by word!

I have funny feelings for books, either reading them, looking at them.. Sometimes, I would fall in love with a book and just want to have it.. I might not read it immediately, but the sense of ownership satisfy me.. Hahaha! Sounded nerdish.. yeah.. a mama nerd! hahaha..

Lil C loves books too.. We cultivated that habit when he was an infant till now. I normally read to him before going to bed, and THE END would mean another book! hehehe.. Lil C loves non-fictional books and poetry. We try not to introduce him books where animal/plant talks, but sometimes just cant help it. There are masses of children books out there which are too fictional for children below 5 years old. (Read Misconception about Fantasy down below)

His first collection of book was the Grolier - I wonder why. Bought the set for him when he was 7 months in my tummy. From there, our book collection keep growing.

Another favourite collection of his (& Mama's) are Dr.Seuss'. (This set contradicts with my believe that no-talking-animal policy, but I cant resist the out-of-the-box poems written by Dr.Seuss.) The words are so catchy that even lil C love reciting his poems."One fish, two fish; red fish, blue fish"

One of the poem books with lovely language, lil C was showing the book to us while waiting for Mama cleaning baby up. At anytime of the day, Lil C would just go to his bookshelf and grab a book that excites him..


Reading for Baby C; he is also exposing books to Baby C, voluntarily & spontaneously.

Read more about fantasy, you can agree to it, you can disagree to it:

Misconception that Maria Montessori was against fantasy; she didn't believe in letting kids be creative.

Maria Montessori was not against fantasy and creativity for young children. What she did observe was that young children were at a stage in life of huge development and to be participating in the here and now was what they needed most. Some fantasy time was not necessarily harmful, just as for adults, some sort of diversion isn't harmful. But she was concerned about children who spent considerable time fantasizing, especially those who were unable to NOT fantasize. She also found time and time again in her classes that the children would leave toys and fantasy aside, of their own volition, when provided with suitable real-life activities that fulfilled their inner needs. This concurs with Paula Polk Lillard's experience as described in her book "Montessori in the Classroom: A Teacher's Account of How Children Really Learn". Every year, she started her class with one box of toys the children could choose from, plus the prepared Montessori environment. Within a matter of weeks, the toybox became untouched.

As for creativity, children at the 0-6 level (meaning, ages 0-6) do best being creative with real things. They may not be allowed to use the materials in any way they see fit, just as an adult is not allowed to use a car in any way he or she sees fit, but there is opportunity for creativity and more importantly, there is the development of the senses at the 3-6 level that will be the foundations of higher creativity later on. At the 6-12 level, the children are simply at a different stage of development and imagination, creativity and fantasy are non-issues.

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We should check that they [books] present reality, since at this age children are trying to make sense of the environment and the life around them. There is nothing more extraordinary and interesting than our own daily life. Fantasy can come later - after reality has been experienced and absorbed.

- Dr. Silvana Montanaro


Happy reading, everyone!

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

The best toy for the little hand

A showcase of Lil C's favourite toy. He plays with it every day without failed. Be it in the morning, noon and night.. His favourite things, DUPLO (Lego for toddlers/preschool).


"CLICK" Smile, you are on Candid Camera!


He built this, he called it steps (stairway to heaven..??)


He builds things, anytime, anywhere... even while sitting on his throne.


A caravan..? Hmm.. just let your imagination run!


Some kitty driving a car.. err.. ? Lil C is always into building something loooong!


He told me that this is a water pipe. Can you spot the faucet / knob of the pipe to turn on the water? (Ignore the window block, he just take and put whatever he gets..)


A plane by lil C.


"Ngeoooong" by the airplane



Another version of his 'plane/car'.


At Dai Q's (Uncle David) house in kampung


The boys with the DUPLO guns.. Bang! Bang!


Recently, we bought him the FireEngine (He wants to be one when he grows up) model for his new collection. Quite reluctant to buy at first, because we thought it might halt his creativity. There were many pre-designed blocks, we worried that he'd stopped creating his own... But it's all worth it, his creativity went a level higher..

Lil C's firestation. He is 'putting' up the fire on the neighbour's house.


A plane with the little people "lined up" ~ his favourite words. Lil C has 6 duplo men that named after us, but he refused the lady (mama) to join the gang on the 'plane'.. From left: Man with the red shirt (PaPa), Baby C, Popo, KungKung(with the moustache, older looking) & lil C who is the pilot (with a distinguished yellow helmet). Mama not in pix (poor me!)


A Big house~ to be set on fire later, and saved by the Firemen.


Not enough space, Lil C added a large red flat block to put all the Duplo people to sit in the Fire Engine. NeeNaw! NeeNaw! 6 firemen, to the rescue!

So, if you ask me what kind of toys for your kids, I strongly recommend Duplo. Btw, 99% of the products lil C made is by himself. The adults only helped to erect the Fire Station :)

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Have you visited 1Borneo yet?

We visited to 1borneo again today. Not much shopping, just slighty bored at home.. Wanted to check-out the RM5 Japanese shop Daiso to see any interesting stuff on sale..

Anyways, we parked our car at the 3rd floor level. While entering the car park, I read a banner by 1Borneo's carpark management,

"FOC Indoor car park parking until further notice."
My English isnt that excellent, but reading such redundant words, done by the Management (or whoever did that) is such a turn-off. How could this so-called largest hypermall in East Malaysia overlooked that. Not a big issue, had a big laugh over it! I wasnt affected... UNTIL..

there wasnt a sight of Baby Changing Room!!! This is totally unacceptable.. Maybe I could have missed it, but I couldnt find any, not even a decent table in the ladies toilet for diaper change ...

Come on la... They should be updated with all such related issues and yet, they failed to do such simple thing... I could have just change Baby C at the Starbuck's coffee table, but I am not that rude and ignorant!.. hmmm... T'was very dissapointed.
Baby C, still smilling despite having soiled diaper

Six (non)sensical stuffs about me

I got tagged. I hardly do tags, but this one seemed short! hehehe

1. Link to the person that tagged you - Deana
2. Post the rules on your blog.
3. Share six non-important things/habits/quirks about yourself.
4. Tag someone.

What is 6 (non)sensical stuffs about me ah…

  1. My brain is always non-stop thinking (isnt that's what brain's for?). When I am doing one thing, brain prompts me that I need to do other things too and these to-do lists go on and on till I forget most of the things that I need to do.. A nyanyok mama!
  2. I am a perfectionist & a workaholic, I plan things and have high hopes.. When it didnt go as well, I could gobble up a tiger!.. Luckily, after having kids, I've mellowed so much! They are blessings from above..
  3. I love history/facts.. I can go crazy over it! (sounds like kaypohchi..?? ~ Not you ah, chi chi.. hehehe)
  4. I love being with my kids, learning and growing with them.. I can spend hours and hours talking and listening to them.. That's why I get a part-time maid to do the other jobs that could take my time away from my kids.. (MIL always complains that my helper is inefficient about the housework.. Me dont care, as long as my precious time with the kids arent taken away)

  5. My fav colour is red.. I tried not to influence my kids with my fav colour, but Lil C seemed to be infected! hehehe.. I think he is losing it tho, coz his fav colour now is PINK (& black).. I think his fav colour has faded... oh my!

  6. Sleep is a waste of time..

I am tagging cuz AudreyST, cuz Lynn Marcia , cuz Florence, Fiona , Pang, aMY & Justine and let me know more about you..

Saturday, June 21, 2008

I am a MOooo

hehehe... a Moo-Moo mama.. With nursing tops, just do it anywhere with confidence!

This was taken during cuz Ian's birthday, celebrated at 1Borneo :) Baby C is definitely a contented calf! For moms who are FTWM, here some tips on breastfeeding. Salute Farah for sacrificing her sleeps , being able to do it!

A showcase of Baby C, at 2months old, he weighs 5.4kg. He loves to coo and smile back at us. Able to lift his head for a short seconds, loves when Mama read/sing to him and loves his brother's voice.


Cak!!! I am a little roo.. in Mama's pouch!


Hero Kampung in his little Camo!


Mooo MMoooo.. my little calf!


The little Wong Loong (except he is wearing Red instead of Yellow Dragon). Make your ancestor proud!


Tucked in babyseat, on the way balik kampung during Kaamatan

The Daya grandkids - Lil C with his cousin sisters : Michelle, Ivy & Dannielle


Baby C & Baby Ivy sound asleep.. Actually, comparing the two babies, baby Ivy 7months old weighing 8.9kg.

Will update more.. its very late now.. 4.30am Saturday. Both lil C & myself have dentist appointment at 9.30am.... Nitey!

Bye-bye


This is a vain post! hehehe.. I tried to keep my hair longer than usual.. It has been a while (4years) every since I had my hair long... Kept this hair for a year now.. but cant take it. With Malaysian's current weather, its just too hot for me.. On my way to my favourite hairdresser at Wisma Merdeka, Bobbi.

Bye Bye hair!

Friday, June 20, 2008

I am reading


The Original Homeschooling Series
by Charlotte M. Mason

Monday, June 16, 2008

What I have been doing..

Yeah, again back to my favourite topic : Homeschooling (wont be able to be online most of the time). I was and still is doing research + readings on Homeschool again, as I really want to homeschool my kids till they are 12years old.. or even up to pre-uni level..

Why homeschool? Lots of reason that I cant/dont have the time to pen them down here. But I need to seek courage to do it.. Lil C is only 3, and he is enjoying school at the moment. I dread to think ahead where he had to study and struggle to get good grades in school exam... sigh! I remembered my time when I was in school, and now I see my nieces are having such problems... I dont want to see my boys having such stress!!... So, am I ready to follow the journey that is less travelled? Check out this site : Homeschool Malaysia

Recently I added my books, and just finished reading the Learning Beyond Schooling from the mentioned website. Either you are against/for homeschooling, it is the book that I highly recommend parents to read, to look into the reality of school system. I ordered the book directly from the author: Ms Chong Wei Leng, with her signature! And she mentioned that the group might visit Sabah in August! hope to be able to meet up with them.. :)

Home schooling: In the comfort of their home
IT'S not your exclusive expensive private school or the humble pondok of the east coast that have produced some fine scholars.

Henry K. Pillai says home-schooled children learn how to think critically.
Henry K. Pillai says home-schooled children learn how to think critically.
This is home schooling, education provided by mum and dad right at home, and it looks to have set root in Malaysia.

There are an estimated 1,000 children who are being home schooled in the Klang Valley, according to Henry K. Pillai, the chairman of the Petaling Jaya Homeschooling Association.

"The number is increasing," said Pillai whose association, which was set up in 2000, acts as the resource centre for about 200 home-schooled children.

There are many families home schooling their children but there is no way of knowing the exact figures as they are unregistered.
"Many families in Kedah, Kelantan, Terengganu and other states are calling us to get more information on home schooling," said Pillai.

Home schooling is not a new concept. American presidents such as George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Abraham Lincoln and Theodore F. Roosevelt were home-schooled.

The list of luminaries also includes Florence Nightingale, Thomas Edison, Benjamin Franklin, Mozart and authors Agatha Christie, Mark Twain and Charles Dickens.

It was common among the privileged and rich members of society.

King Mongkut of Siam, in the celebrated film The King and I, had in the early 1860s "installed" an English teacher in the palace for his children.

The growing number of families in Malaysia turning to home schooling are no aristocrats. They are well off and can afford the time and effort to look into home schooling for their children.

Chong Wai Leng, 43, who works from home, and her husband, K.V. Soon, 44, made the decision to home-school their three children, Amrita, 12, Samanta, 11 and Arian, 4, after years of researching the pros and cons.

"In a (national) classroom, the children are learning in an environment which could prove to be jarring, with 40 to 50 other children in the same class," said Chong.

"The noise, the pressure to perform, the punishment meted out by school authorities can be traumatic and difficult for a child to handle."

Looking for a holistic approach to education, the family attended a home-schooling convention held in California in the United States, attended by over 500 families from all across the nation.

The experience was an eye-opener for the couple who saw that home-schooled children were much happier.

"That was when we decided to aim for the unstructured approach.

"Home schooling is basically learning according to the child's interest.

"There's no timetable, no real syllabus per se. It's freedom in learning," said Soon.

"It struck us because they were learning so much more, more than what they could get in the classrooms. We decided that alternative education brings out the best in them."

The couple's two-storey house in Subang Jaya is a mini-education hub, complete with a small library, computers and musical instruments.

There are also opportunities to conduct educational excursions as there is no time constraint.

"Just a few months ago, we organised a trip to TV3 to learn about television programming, together with other home-schooled children.

"There were about 100 of us, including parents. Parents of home schoolers have organised many educational trips for their children," said Soon.

Chong and Soon are also the founders of www.familyplace.com.my, which has become a meeting ground for home educators.

Chong is also the author of Learning Beyond Schooling: Bringing out Children's True Potentials.

Kam Thean Au, 62, and his wife, Audrey, 50, home schooled their daughters, Grace, 13, and Joyce, 12, for three years.

"After doing much research, we found that the home schooling system is the best for our children.

"They learn how to regulate themselves and become more independent and disciplined," said Kam.

Contrary to popular belief, home schoolers are not sheltered from the outside world.

"They have opportunities to socialise with other home schoolers and they take part in numerous social activities.

"In many ways, they are better equipped to face their college and university years as they have been trained to be independent," said Kam.

Soon said the home schoolers' social spectrum was wide.

"In school, they will only get to know those of the same age or closer to their age, whereas when they are home schooled, they can socialise with people of all ages, races and all walks of life," said Soon.

Kam said many parents of gifted children choose home schooling as they could pursue their own interests, an opportunity which was not available in national schools.

A home-schooled child may not face as much pressure as their school-going counterparts may face, said Pillai.

"It's not all result-oriented, so there is little or no pressure on the children."

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